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Desire for power is a basic human instinct. But few people achieve it — or at least a great deal of it.
In his book "Power: Why Some People Have It — And Others Don't," Stanford business professor Jeffrey Pfeffer tells us why we should want it, and how to go about getting it.
Most of us willingly give up power, or ruin our chances of ever getting it by never even trying (it's called the self-handicapping principal).
Here are the best takeaways from Pfeffer's book.

Don't believe the myth that some people are born to lead and others aren't

Don't believe the myth that some people are born to lead and others aren't
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"One of the biggest mistakes people make is thinking good performance — job accomplishments — is sufficient to acquire power and avoid organizational difficulties. Consequently, people leave too much to chance and fail to effectively manage their careers."





Get over the idea that everyone needs to like you

Get over the idea that everyone needs to like you
"Larry Summers, Treasury secretary under Bill Clinton, president of Harvard University and former head of President Barack Obama's National Economic Council, is often described as prickly, outspoken, and not very sensitive. ... [But] not only has Summers's reputation not hurt him; it has actually helped."

Performance doesn't really matter

Performance doesn't really matter
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Your relationship with your boss matters more. "In 1980, economists James Medoff and Katherine Abraham observed that salaries in companies were more strongly related to age and organizational tenure than they were to job performance."


Help powerful people feel good about themselves

Help powerful people feel good about themselves
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"Turnover in senior executive ranks was affected by CEO turnover, particularly when an outsider came in. That's because CEOs like to put loyalists in senior positions — regardless of what past incumbents have accomplished."


Build an effective power network

Build an effective power network
"Many studies show that networking is positively related to obtaining good performance evaluations, objective measures of career success such as salary and organizational level, and subjective attitudes assessing career satisfaction."


Break the rules, especially early in your career

Break the rules, especially early in your career
"In every war in the last 200 years conducted between unequally matched opponents, the stronger party won about 72% of the time. However, when the underdogs understood their weakness and used a different strategy to minimize its effects, they won some 64% of the time, cutting the dominant party's likelihood of victory in half."

Get access to key resources

Get access to key resources
"It would be nice to be Sergey Brin or Larry Page ... or Bill Gates. As they move through venues like the World Economic Forum, they are surrounded not just by security staff but by people who want to meet them and get close to them and the organizations they lead."


Do an honest self-assessment

Do an honest self-assessment
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"Because we like to think well of ourselves, we overestimate our own abilities and performance. ... When people focus on what they need to get to the next stage of their careers, they are less defensive."

Act the part before you've got the part

Act the part before you've got the part
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"Over time, you will become more like you're acting — self-assured, confident, and more strongly-convinced of the truth of what you are saying."